Be who you are

Good day! Today is going to be a great day ...

Why? Because I believe it will be. With no faith that today will be a great day and expect the opposite, then bad will happen for you today. Belief and faith in yourself are key to begin your day! Change your thoughts to change your day for the better! Forget everything that caused you problems. Forgive those who wronged you! Think positive for the better! Love the people that love you.

Never let anyone to put you down! Any problems can be solved, only if you're strong enough to face and solve it. Never lose hope, stay strong no matter what happens! We are here in this world to live our lives not to live in fear. Because once we are fearless nothing will hurt us. Live accordingly as you want, if you think it's good for  you then live with it. We are here to live freely not to live manipulated by someone else or controlled by anyone.

Inequalities in this country

Wherever I go, most women and men that I've seen lately are so lonely. In particular the women in my country. They walk around the planet feeling unloved because their husbands or boyfriends have replaced them with younger women. I think women in this country are lonelier than the men because the latter have more freedom, in the sense that this society doesn't have to punish those men who cheat on their wives. That is as long as he doesn't neglect providing his family financially. Men are allowed to have mistresses, while the women are presumed to behave. Although our culture permits men to cheat on their wives, it does not accord women to do the same courtesy because in this country it is not unusual for a man to have one or two mistresses, depending on how much he can afford.

Randoms Thoughts of the day.

It is not always about how you are ahead of someone. Sometimes, you just have to stay quiet and observe those people who keep on hating on you. And right there you'll see how it will shut them up. It is not always needful to degrade those kind of people just to save yourself from their unwanted judgment. When you know yourself that you are higher than them in so many ways no need to brag about it. Or when you know yourself that they are lower than you no need to futher drag them down, unless you are a little bit of a butthead, then I understand the reason why you just can't ignore those people, over pretty things, Learn to ignore! Been there, done that. Unless they hit the wrong button, that's when we should react. You don't need to respond to them in a boastful way. You respond to them in a way they would actually feel you don't care.

Thoughts

No matter what you do bad or good people will always complain. Some people will gossip about you, they will talk bad about you, judge you, hate you without really knowing the reason why they hates you. Sometimes they just hate you for being you. Sometimes they do it out of jealously. But seriously, we don't need to turn out to be that kind of human being. We have to be contented with what we have in life and stay away from someone else's business. Worry about ourselves instead of minding other people businesses! That's a good start away from karma!.

Wrong trust

If someone you know going to beg for you to lend her/him money because she/he needed it badly for her/his kids or sick relatives..etc. would you lend him/her?

I easily trust people, so I will definitely lend him/her specially if he/she is a good friend of mine. That's what I actually did a week ago to a friend who I thought was trusted. I lend her money because she said her daughter is sick and that she needed to bring her to the clinic for check up. I don't know her so well, but Jessa does, and I trusted Jessa's opinion. Maybe I was just being taken by my emotions when she said her daughter is sick. So I borrowed the money to her as she promised to pay me back yesterday but there were no sign of her. Until now she still is in hiding. No text, no phone calls, she never even answered my calls. I am totally dissapointed by her action. I hate being used by others! This behavior is sick!

Thoughts of the day

Oh love. Why do we love? We say nothing lasts forever, so why do we bother to pursue love? Oh I guess we just love the pain when love comes to it's end. We just love to cry over the wasted trust. We just love to throw ourselves into situations where we are always in the losing end and sometimes end up taking our own lives because can no longer take the pain. Sad but true!

Why do we love? Why do we love if all we end up into pain? Because it brings us no equal happiness. Because along with pain and sorrow, there is satisfaction and enjoyment, along with the sufferings, there is solace. We love pain because it's part of the whole package of human experience. To have blood is human, to bleed it out is more human. And so we always fall.

Everything gone too far

If you have to suspend work and classes to avoid traffic on an international summit, it features that there's something wrong with public transportation. If you have to provide a special lane for visitors, it is evidence that there's a problem in infrastructure. If you have to hide the homeless for the streets to look good there's something wrong with social welfare and housing. So Filipinos, how's the day of being slapped as a second class citizen? But who would want that anyway, nobody wants that. It hurts that we have to suffer traffic every day, but the government gives a fast lane to APEC delegates. It hurts that street lights got fixed and public cleanliness at its maximum for this conference. hurts that the manila look presentable this week, not because we filipino people deserve it but because the government wants the APEC delegates to see our fake beauty. It hurts that we are second class netizens in our own country, we all deserve manila or should I say Philippines  at it's best not only when influentials people come to visit. But what can we do to questioned them anyway if they are above us in all level.